“Don’t
regret for the past, live your present”
“Today is
the day you have got, live it"
“Don’t be
afraid of the future, live this day”
We have
heard many such thoughts and similar dialogues many times.
Before I
start to share my views and thought on such dialogues and notions I must inform you that this post is not meant to hurt
anyone or to prove anyone wrong, just like you I am also sharing my thoughts…
So what
about my views about the above written sentences or about the similar thoughts
written above?.....all these are bullshits, the most bogus and third graded
thoughts I have heard many times in my life…hoooooooh…., zyada bol diya kiya?
Sorry I can’t help it….dual nature was never my inherent property, andar kuchh
aur bahar kuchh….mujhse hota nahi, this is the reason many people do not like
me and avoid me.
Coming to
the point……Why bullshit?....coz actually there is no independent existence of
“today”, what you call “today” is the result of your previous thoughts,
activities and life style, you never can deny your past.
Having the
thought “let me live my “today’” or giving suggestion to someone to live this
present day is almost similar as god is saying:”Tathastu’(prayers granted) to
everyone’s prayer, now think what will happen if the prayers of the terrorists
and of the thieves get granted?
To suggest someone
(including myself) to live this present day is actually a very misleading
suggestion, sometime to emphasize the importance of present day we say….”future
is uncertain, even you don’t know whether you will be alive tomorrow or not, so
live this day”…now tell me if a terrorist gets such an thought what will he
do…naturally taking life risk he will blast as much as places possible for him.
If any parents tell/give such teaching to their child/children then lots of
children will spend the whole day watching movies, or posting pics in fb or
playing in the fields…coz they all will want to live the last day in earth as
lively as possible. They all will try to employ this day as much as possible
they can.Hope now you can understand how much misleading it is.
Neither to
the terrorists nor to the students can you give such thoughts…. Neither can you
give such thoughts to the people who have crossed 2os/3os /40s nor any age.
There can be
huge chaos and unstoppable unwanted activities if people take it seriously.
Now coming
to another teaching…”don’t regret for the past, take lessons from past and live
the present”….i will never give such lessons to anyone…if I say such sentence
then I will add more….to make someone understand how much important “today” is
I will suggest him/her…
At first you
make self analysis and self-judgment, it will take time…but remember, make the
analysis and judgment keeping your ego aside, you will surely find lots of
mistakes and faults that you have done earlier, then contact the persons from whom you need to beg pardon, ask them to
forgive you….long time will pass while you will doing all these, in between ten
hours you can complete the whole process and I can assure you that you will
live the most peaceful and happiest moment of your life in the rest 14 hours,
may be you can die tomorrow but you will
leave this earth with pride and having pleasure in your heart and
mind…..ultimately what we want and what we need is nothing other than peace. If
you don’t die tomorrow then I am sure you will get a new life , a total new
birth and you will never be afraid to face anyone in this earth coz from next
day truth will always be there to support you. Remember…we are human beings and
we have huge difference with other species, so be a human and be true…only then
you can actually live every second of your life…whether its only the “Today” or
the rest of the life…this is the thought or suggestion I will give after
suggesting not to regret for past and to live “today”.
A patient
with high level of sugar and pressure if start to believe that ‘today” is my
last day in earth, future is uncertain…naturally the patient will eat as much
as sweets and rich foods possible, so what will happen?...surely this day will
be the last of that patient in this earth.
“Take lesson from the past” and "don’t
be worried about your future”…these two sentences are contradictory…lesson
says “you should not eat sweets as you havbe high sugar level”…..but ”Today” I am interested to eat sweets without being worried
about future, lesson says….i did not secure good marks in X th stad. for not
studying properly ….but “today” I am interested to play cricket for whole day
above all “Future is uncertain, I don’t know whether I will be alive tomorrow
or not”
This is the
reason I will always say that we always should be CAREFUL about our future and SOMETIME worried also.
Definition of
living is different to different people…students, patients, terrorists, anti-socials
and good people…all have different perspectives towards life, they all have
different wishes, different demands.
Suggesting someone
to “Live Today’ is a half sentence until you make clear…how to live, how to
take lessons from past (including your faults), why we should be careful about
future and even why sometime we should be worried about future.
‘this moment
is the only truth”…scientifically, philosophically, psychologically and
biologically this sentence is wrong. What does this sentence want to mean…this
moment is truth and previous were false? Then what about my birth day, my
growing up time period, my childhood, my school and college days, my activities, my lost love ?....
at the end i wanna say again...this post is not meant to hurt anyone or to prove anyone wrong, i have shared my thought on the IndiSpire prompt(Topic 146)
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