In my previous
post I have shared my views about the book “Idle Parenting Foundation” and
today I am gonna share a short interview of the author of that book.
She is the creator of Surabhi’s Musing
1.
How did you come in
the field of blogging?
Surabhi : From earlier cooking and writing was my passion and I write since from
my school time but after married some responsibility and in my busy schedule I
am not able to continue my writing. Those days each and every moment I feel
like I killed my mind. But it's true always listen to your heart because “where
there’s a will, there’s a way”. after some years Slowly I tried to save some
times for my writing and I created my free blog and started blogging because
blogging is the best platform in a digital world where I revealed my thoughts
to the people around me and it’s a huge learning platform for me. A successful
career and life are used based upon being “on purpose” so we all bring our own
magic and uniqueness into the world.
2.
How is your experience
till now?
Surabhi : It has been a fabulous sweet and sour journey. I have faced lots of
problems and barrier in this journey but my all well-wishers support,
appreciation, good wishes and their bunch of love helping me to break down the
entire barrier and growing my blogging journey.
3.
You worked in IT
sector for few years then shifted in Educational field, why did you take this
decision?
Surabhi : I am also surprised by this turning point IT sector to the Education
sector. I had worked in IT sector Before my marriage but after marriage I
shifted my place and 10 to 7 p.m working time is not possible for me and my
in-laws family very conservative and they don’t want that their daughter-in-law
go out and continue work 10 to 7 p.m. so I am silent a few years and I
pouring my wishes with my family responsibility but I could not silent long
myself and finally, I thought I have to do something which is comfortable for
all so I decide to shift myself to the education sector because of
its a comfortable job and key factor for women empowerment prosperity.
4.
What are the problems
you faced for the shifting in job field?
Surabhi : I never face any problem for the shifting on the job sector because I
have passions, ability and special I loved the child and loved to spending time
with children. So, I tackled everything very smoothly.
5.
How do you manage your
time for blogging?
Surabhi : As a mom blogger, it is very difficult to manage time for blogging
because I never ignore my family responsibility and especially I never compromised
that times when my daughter needs me and wants to spend time with me. Another
side I need a very peaceful mind and silent environment to write effectively.
So I manage it like other moms when my daughter is in school but my comfortable
time is right after dinner and so I maximum time spending with my blogging at
night.
6.
How was the journey of
A2Z challenge with Blogchatter?
Surabhi : In this journey I face many problems, I learn more and understand my
abilities to write and I am really very grateful to the blogchatter group for
this opportunity. All over it’s a very amazing and memorable journey of my
life.
7.
Anything new you have
learned taking part in this challenge?
Surabhi : Yes, of course, I Learn many things through this challenge, how you
express yourself in front of the world. Most important thing is that sharing
and helping is a very big thing which is a help to grow your blogging community
and you should keep the charge yourself and active in this blogging world.
8.
What are your views
towards the contemporary parent –child relationship?
Surabhi : Through my views, now days parenting lives are very busy and hectic and
it is totally different than 30 years ago. In modern days parenting are
increasingly pigeon-holding themselves into a narrowly prescribed parenting
style and I seem some parents feel confused, as new parenting trends pop up
every year, some parents feel they are failing if they don’t rigidly stick to
the parenting and some parents completely with self-doubt. So I think first we
all parents should try to understand our parenting behavior, controlling style
and warmth. It seems some time some parents make demands of their children and
manage their behavior and it's just like a sliding scale, with “ very
restrictive “ on one the end, and “ very permissive “ on the other. So we
all parents should be cautious about our behavior, our presentation,
controlling and communication style because every child is different and every Child good or bad reflection on their family’s value, belief, culture and
lifestyle.
9.
According to you what
is the toughest job of parenting, I mean anything particular you have noticed?
Surabhi : On parenting, there have not any particularly tough because the whole
parenting job is a tough job but now modern days it becomes very.... tough.
10.
What’s your view
towards present education system?
Surabhi : Present day in
education system giving more importance to textbooks than the teacher and
students have no freedom to think creatively and students learning system just
like a robot. Most of the syllabus is in theoretical form and very low salaries
of teachers and another side no control of the government on the fee structure
of private education or private institute. Now have very little improvement in
the education system but not more. Last year (2018) in the nominal ranking,
India which is at 7 the place in GDP and another hand China has gone an
increasing number of the higher education world university ranking 2019. The
United States and China world occupy the first two places, 2 nds ranked the US
is growing slow and still 3 rd ranked India is way behind.
